The dreaded 3:18am wake up by your child, sometime, somewhere in your parenting journey, its going to happen. And on this Sunday night, I was violently shaken awake by my ridiculously strong 8-year-old. It’s not a usual occurrence so I expected to wake to some sort of Paranormal experience where someone is levitating off the bed or the shadow of my ex attacking me for having his child support payments raised. Instead I opened my eyes to find a very cohearent, very alert child. As a parent, we have our list of questions at the ready when these things happen: Are you ok?Did you wet the bed? Are you afraid? Did someone break into the house? Is someone outside with a big check with my name on it? Is something burning? To which she answered no for every question. After one final, WHATS WRONG KID! She replied…I need you to hold me so I can fall back asleep.
Too tired to argue, I did as was asked and went back to sleep.
The next morning, I asked her what was her problem. Why did she wake up the sleeping dragon. To which she replied. “Mama, I couldn’t sleep. So either I was going to be up and keep us both up or you could just hold me and we both get to go back to sleep. Makes sense right! It was simple mom, not complicated.” So yes, according to my very wise 8-year-old, life is that simple and I will take this talk and try to apply it to everything this week.
- Dont like your job. Find a new one!
- Gained some weight because you eat too much junk and don’t exercise enough. Stop eating junk and exercise!
- Dont like your husband/boyfriend, get a new one!
- Your kid likes to wake you up in the middle of the night…keep your door locked! 🙂
See its simple, not complicated!